Dis is ma 1st blog…and love is in the air…so I thought of writing abt LOVE, LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS…. Its ma personal experience…so I donno how u all r gonna react…but I’d like 2 rqst every1 2 give der comments…dat mi8 jus help me find out how wrong I’m

I haven’t cracked d answer 4 one question till now…..i’ve been thinking about dis for quite a long time…Wat does luv actually mean???? Definitely dis isn’t jus abt sharing a quality tym wid some1…changing urself so dat u suit dem…try all d possible means 2 impress dem…

luv is all abt makin d other person happy…no matter wat it takes…!!! Luv is not abt being wid some1…I’d rather choose 2 come out of her lyf, if her life is more meaningful without ma name der…!!!

“Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don’t yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings.”

Luv is not jealousy, luv is not passiveness, luv is not forced……and luv is not LUST………!!!

Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone.

Luv is unconditional….u never expect nething in return wen u r in luv.

“Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”

Wen u luv her…u don’t force her 2 be wid u…!!! Even if she leaves u…trust ur luv…she’ll come bac…if she ever luvd u……n if she doesn’t den she never did…!!!

Relationships are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough.

Most people are in relationships because they’re horny and/or lonely, even if they genuinely think they love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their “equipment” for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that person? Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.

“You can break love, but it won’t die.”

I READ IT IN SOMEOTHER BLOG….LYKED IT…SO THOUGHT OF SHARING IT……..!!!

Love is never a waste

Person A: My brother spent a lot of money to fly overseas about 2 times to see his girlfriend.

Person B: Long distance relationships fail.

Person A: She came back with him and now they’re married.

Person B: At least they’re together now. If it didn’t work out, that would have been really stupid on his behalf.

This was a conversation I saw in a chat room the other day. I wanted to hit Person B over the head with a large mallet. How would that have been stupid? What happens when you go overseas to see someone? You get to see the person (duh) and spend some time with them.

Apparently, according to Person B, spending money to go see a person you love and spend time with them is really stupid unless the relationship “works out”. I guess what he really means is that it’s a waste of time and money unless the two people end up living together. But even if they don’t end up living together, they still got to see each other. They still have the experience of that, and the memories, and they got to know each other a bit better.

I can only conclude that Person B was not talking about unconditional love, and has probably never experienced it. The sad thing is that this kind of thinking is quite common, and generally encouraged. People think it’s “smart” to focus on what they can “get out of” a relationship, and if they aren’t “getting enough” then it’s a waste of time.

Don’t ever fall for this “logic”. It will do more to prevent you from experiencing unconditional love than it will ever do to help you find more of it.

“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”